“People cry, not because they’re weak. It’s because they’ve been strong for too long.”—
“People cry, not because they’re weak. It’s because they’ve been strong for too long.”—
autumn in film
- knives out (2019) dir. rian johnson
- dead poets society (1989) dir. peter weir
- little women (2019) dir. greta gerwig
- when harry met sally… (1989) dir. rob reiner
- emma. (2020) dir. autumn de wilde
- you’ve got mail (1998) dir. nora ephron
- love rosie (2014) dir. christian ditter
- sweet home alabama (2002) dir. andy tennant
“Let’s face it … people and events are going to continue to both hurt and disappoint you. Among the people will be those you most love, as well as those you least know. Seldom is it their intent to purposely hurt you, but rather, a variety of situations mostly beyond your control will cause them to act, speak, or think in ways which can have an adverse effect upon you, your present feelings and emotions, and the way your life upholds. It has been this way through six thousand years of recorded history, and your hurt or grief is not the first time a human has been deeply hurt by the inappropriate actions of another. The only way to avoid being touched by life––the good as well as the bad––is to withdraw from society, and even then you will disappoint yourself, and your imagining about what is going on out there will haunt you and hurt you. Knowing this, there is but one solution that will support you when people and events hurt you, and that is to learn to work harder on your personal growth than anything else. Since you cannot control the weather, or the traffic, or the one you love, or your neighbors, or your boss, then you must learn to control you … the one whose response to the difficulties of life really counts.”— Jim Rohn
“Listen to the people who love you. Believe that they are worth living for even when you don’t believe it. Seek out the memories depression takes away and project them into the future. Be brave; be strong; take your pills.”— Andrew Solomon
“Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind and emotions.”— Will Smith
“It’s so difficult to describe depression to someone who’s never been there, because it’s not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold absence of feeling— that really hollowed-out feeling.”— J.K. Rowling